Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Random thoughts no.2

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Love is a stupidly defined emotion, simply because older people always say that you don't know what it is while you're young, so does that mean that whilst I'm still classified as/believe i am young, i don't know what love is. However we are also told while we're young that we will always love our family.. E.g " I know you had a fight, but you guys are sisters you will always love each other".
See this is why I'm confused, we are forever being told that we don't know what love is, but we will always love our family. So theoretically, we can love someone and not even notice. yes?
See now that makes no sense too me what so ever, but then again it doesn't need too make sense too be logical, like physics, i don't get it but apparently it works.

So here is my theory of love (so far):
it makes you happy
it makes you sad
you frequently fight with the other half
you frequently defend the other half
you share an unspoken bond (of some description)
there is always food of some variety involved at some point
common interests (yes they are important)
late nights ( doing anything and nothing)

Basically i just wrote down the relationship i have with my sister, if i could share all this with a boy i would be happy, really happy in fact.
True love is exclusive too those that are family, or close too it.

1 comment:

  1. I think you have summed this up perfectly, although you missed out one element, that is friendship, the person you love is also your BEST friend, one your can share your most personal secrets with & know he will still love you just the same & will keep them a secret with you!!!

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